Every year, I aim to read 10 books for leisure & luxury. Some years, I manage to finish all 10, while in other instances, I've eased the pace, settling around 6 to 8 books. It's not so much about the numerical count; rather, I assign a number to maintain a steady momentum and keep the reading journey alive.

But what I've come to discover is that we don't have to accept whatever life serves us. We have the power to decline the “meal”, to deliberately choose to let it wither away, to starve the elements that no longer serve us, paving the way for a more nourishing and empowering path ahead.

Contrary to the TikTok hashtag, my travels are not focused on chasing black girl luxury (although I can't resist looking good while traveling). Traveling, for me, extends beyond celebrating milestones or special occasions; it revolves around enjoying God’s creations all over the world, because enjoyment is a gift to us.

Throughout 2022, there were moments when I felt like I was on top of the world, like Burna selling out MSG, when everything seemed to fall into place, and I was unstoppable. But there were also times when I was knocked down and had to pick myself back up again. Through it all, I learned that life is about more than just achieving goals, but rather, a collection of experiences.

Talk about a plot twist — I was on the verge of ‘tearing my clothes’ as the Bible characters do when in despair. But if I’ve learned anything from this season, it’s that when God says no, then issa no for me dawg. No resisting. No forcing. No negotiating.

“In today’s intense work environment and the ‘you sleep, we grind’ hustle culture, it can be easy to equate your perceived level of busyness with your self-worth. For far too long I believed the lie that I should always be hustling, always striving because the more I sow, the more I’ll reap… right?

I didn’t win a Grammy, but I’d still like to take this time to celebrate this win.

Like Kanye said in his 2005 Grammy acceptance speech, “appreciate every moment.” We don’t have to wait until something becomes a memory, or we receive accolades to appreciate it.